088. what my 3.5 year relationship taught me [soul contracts & break-up reflection]
3 weeks ago, my 3.5 year relationship came to an end… and I’m feeling pretty great now. Here’s the rundown on what I’ve learned, how I’ve grown, and the perspectives I’ve taken to process and move on from my ex-soulmate. FYI- it’s not a sad story, just a raw human experience.
(00:00) Context into my last relationship
(04:10) Soulmates & Soul Contracts
(07:25) Anchoring into relationships
(14:18) Knowing vs. Acting on your knowing
(20:12) Relationships are Expanders
(29:08) Post-breakup feelings & insights
(36:07) You can't manufacture desire
(38:15) Seeing the relationship as a success
(41:41) Empowerment through relationships ending
(46:47) Moving on feeling grounded, joyful, and optimistic in the midst of external chaos
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